Your Discomfort Is Not My Misconduct
On criticism, defensiveness, and the stories we tell ourselves about who started it.
Original essays, perspectives, and discoveries exploring the ideas and overlooked connections
that shape how we understand ourselves, one another, and the world.

When someone finally starts doing their part, what happens to the cost of all the years they didn’t?
Read the essayOn criticism, defensiveness, and the stories we tell ourselves about who started it.
We invented a thousand ways to save time. Now we need another thousand ways to figure out which ones work.
When the mind still believes, but the body cannot seem to feel God's presence.
An unnecessarily thorough examination of small talk, social obligations, and the dangerous consequences of answering questions honestly.
